I am always very relaxed when I am around women since these days I am in an excellent relationship. It is funny to me how much easier it became to meet relly nice women after being in a deep and satisfying relationship. I feel this is because I am more at ease and confident.

Confidence is very attractive to women. Today this very lovely young women sat down at the table next to mine at Starbucks. She had her computer and all her stuff. I made a casual friendly comment about how she could plug in her laptop and she replied in a very warm friendly way. I had no expectations but really was being a bit of a flirt. I could have talked more with her but was into the book I was reading and really was not looking to start developing anything.

When I got up to leave she turned to say goodbye anyway. Very warm and friendly enough I can say Hi next time I see her there. It is my local regular place and she had said it ws her favorite table so she is a regular too. It was so easy.

It reminds me years ago of a very hot relationship I got into while attending an adult school class. The girl told me how she was sitting with me out on steps there with nobody around because I was the only guy in the class who had just said Hi. Instead of trying some cool pick up line I had just been friendly in a simple no expectations way and it opened her up. I was young and pretty shy then but later she told me how if I kissed her she would not be able to hold back. I did she didn’t and the rest is story better left my memories and your imagination.

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