You may have heard of many causes why men are failing with women and dating these days but here is a point of view that you may not have considered yet.

When it comes to dating and meeting women, too many men come across as needy, clingy, and overwhelmed. By doing  this it means they’re giving up their OWN personal independence and showing a complete lack of confidence.  signs of dependency on a woman.

When your feelings take over you have to see where they are coming from and where they fit into the situation at hand. Many men fail because they just can’t control their thoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman. They lose their natural cool and blow any chance of making a good impression.

Women are world class body language readers  and can see any sign of nervousness when you are around them. Any uncontrollable emotional response you have with women upfront means that you are losing your own power, strength and independence .

When you are in that condition she cannot become attracted to you. Many women today don’t want to be courted and feeling like they owe this guy a committed relationship, they want to be free and let things happen more naturally.

Many guys get so nervous and self-conscious around the women they desire that they don’t realize there’s nothing they could say  to salvage it. No clever pickup lines will work here. Like I have said before, it’s all additude.

All men were born with the inherent power to please women. And it’s all done on a natural level that’s really more important to  her than money (except gold-diggers). And she has to be able to trust the man to BE a man. Women are waiting for the ‘real men’  because there are so few of them left anymore.

Just have to get in touch with your natural power as a man to reach the natural part of  women. Become a man who is ‘comfortable in his own skin’ and maintain that congruency and you’ll find that women will treat you differently and actually notice you.

Her interest means everything because she is the one who chooses you or not . The nice guy will ‘fail’ in attracting women because he’s not inspiring an instinctual or natural response in her to him.

On the positive side women will KNOW when you are that man they want. To prevent failure, just become a man of high character across the 3 areas that matter (natural, independent and social) and you will have women wanting to be with you and not giving up the chance to meet you. Be what women want by truly becoming the man you were supposed to be instead of having to trick them into something and  you’ll be able to attract women nonverbally.

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It’s all attitude. The right attitude is what makes pick up girls lines work. Take it from Joe. Everything in the world spins around your attitude.  What you bring to the situation. A friend of yours calls you a butthead and you both laugh. Not just because he is your friend  but because of the playfull kidding attitude in which he said it.

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Read most “pick up girls lines” and it’s a hoot. They are funny, in a sort of sad and pathetic way. Attractive women have heard most of them more times than they would ever want to. But along comes a guy with a compelling vibe and he just says hi, or even uses one of those pick up llines, and magic begins to happen. Why? Attitude,  expressed by how he carries himself, in his tone of voice, in the pace of his speach.

This cannot be made up effectively. Maybe for a little while in some times and places, and go ahead and try. Try anything and learn what works and what doesn’t for you in your situation. In the lomg run it is your character as a man that will be what attracts a real woman who wants to become part of your life.

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